A Day in My Life as an Author (and a Working Parent)

Some days feel like a balancing act between the practical stuff and the dream I’m building—one shift, one errand, and one page at a time. Today was one of those days where everything overlapped: I clocked in, I showed up for my puppy, and I still carved out space to be the author I keep promising myself I’ll become.

I started with my day job—serving tables, moving fast, and keeping a smile ready even when my feet were already complaining. It’s honest work, and it keeps my bills paid while I chase the writing life on the side. By the end of my shift, I’d made $150, and I had that familiar mix of relief and motivation: relief because money is money, and motivation because every dollar earned buys me time and stability to write.

After work, I did something that made my heart feel a little lighter: I stopped by Beach Paws Boutique. It’s a small business, the kind of place where you can tell someone picked the products with care instead of algorithms. I ended up spending $140 on my dog—treats and goodies and a giant bag of dog food. Could I have found cheaper options somewhere else? Sure. But I’m trying to be intentional about where my money goes. Supporting small business feels like voting for the community I want to live in, and honestly, it feels good to walk out with a bag that represents more than a transaction.

Later in the afternoon, I found myself waiting at the bus stop for my son. The air was calm, and I felt a small wave of relief knowing we’d already finished his Charlotte’s Web visual aid—one less thing to stress about. Even better, neither kid has any homework tonight, so once dinner is on the table and their bellies are full, I’m free to enjoy a quiet evening, maybe even with a little extra time for myself.

Once I got home, the real work—the work that’s mine—started. I made a quick reset (water, a snack, and a few minutes to decompress), and then I opened my draft again. There’s something almost comical about switching from carrying plates to carrying plot lines, but the truth is: both take stamina. Tonight I’m finishing up my draft, smoothing the rough spots, tightening the language, and making sure the story sounds like me. Not “future me,” not “perfect me”—just the me who wrote it.

The biggest milestone of the day is hitting “send.” I’m packaging the draft up and sending it over to an editor, which always makes my stomach flip a little. It’s vulnerable to hand over something you’ve lived with in your head for so long. But this is what I want—real feedback, real revision, real progress. I keep reminding myself that editing isn’t a sign I failed; it’s proof I’m taking the work seriously.

I’m also taking a chance on Fiverr today—hiring someone to help me with a piece of the process I don’t want to fumble on my own. There’s a special kind of courage in outsourcing when you’re used to doing everything yourself, especially when you’re building a creative life on a budget. But I’m learning that “independent” doesn’t have to mean “alone.” If bringing in extra support helps me move faster, polish the presentation, or simply save my energy for the writing itself, then it’s worth it.

So that was my day: I earned, I spent, I supported, and I created.

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